Stage 4 of 5

Stillness Training

Anxiety is energy without a direction. It builds up when you refuse to sit with yourself.

Stillness training meditation protocol

Why stillness, not distraction

Most anxiety advice is really just distraction advice: go do something else until the feeling passes. That works short-term and does nothing long-term, because the energy never actually goes anywhere — it just gets deferred. Stage 4 is about sitting with it long enough for it to move through instead of around.

How the practice runs

  • Sit for 10 minutes. No app required, no specific technique — just timed, uninterrupted stillness.
  • Don't fight the thoughts. Let them pass without engaging. The goal isn't a blank mind, it's tolerance.
  • Notice where the energy actually sits. Anxiety shows up in the body first — chest, jaw, stomach. Locate it before trying to think your way past it.
  • Log it and move on into Stage 5: Education.

A companion guide

We put together a short guide on working with difficult emotions during this stage, for the days when 10 minutes of stillness feels like the hardest part of the whole protocol.

Download: The Emotion Guide (PDF)

Run the full protocol

The Anxiety Reset is Stage 4 of 5. The free DRG app keeps the daily core going: Listen, Move and Reflect, with your streak tracked one day at a time.

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